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GENTLEMAN’S CLUB: PARTNERS OF EXOTIC DANCERS By Chris Buck

Chris Buck’s Gentleman’s Club (2020) is one of the oddest books I’ve read during the Pandemic. Buck’s book is a mixture of photos and interviews with exotic dancers and their partners. In the Preface, Buck explains, “At its best, a strip club is a dive bar with a charged sexual energy and quiet sense of desperation (from the patrons and dancers). There is something about where the beautiful and the tawdry meet that hits the sweet spot for me.” (p. xi)

The men (and women) who date exotic dancers range from seemingly average people (truck drivers, office workers, etc.) to individuals as exotic as the dancers they date. In the 40 interviews, Buck shows the conflict and complexities of this intense lifestyle. If you’re in the mood for something completely different, Gentleman’s Club captures some of the incredible weirdness of this world. GRADE: A

NEW ROTEL 11 CD player

About 20 years ago, Art Scott visited us and he picked out a new stereo system for me. It consisted of a Rotel CD player, a Rotel amplifier, B&W standalone speakers, and a Onkyo tuner. I had no problems until about nine months ago when the Rotel CD player started to skip. I took it to The Speaker Shop, our local audiophile stereo store where I originally bought my system, and the owner asked, “Do you want to fix it or buy a new one?”

I said, “Let’s get it fixed.” A week later I got the call to pick up my Rotel CD player. It worked fine until last week when it started skipping again. Time for Plan B. I returned to The Speaker Shop and bought a new Rotel 11 CD player. Patrick installed it and now wonderful music fills our house again with no skips. I listen to music every day. How about you?

OLD ROTEL RCD-1072

After installing the new Rotel 11, Patrick chose The Corrs’s Talk on Corners: Special Edition for the first CD to play. Great Choice!!!

Tracklist

1What Can I Do (Tin Tin Out Remix)4:12
2So Young (K-Klass Remix)4:12
3Only When I Sleep4:23
4When He’s Not Around4:26
5Dreams (Tee’s Radio)3:53
6I Never Loved You Anyway4:26
7Don’t Say You Love Me4:39
8Love Gives, Love Takes3:43
9Runaway (Tin Tin Out Remix)4:45
10Hopelessly Addicted4:03
11Paddy McCarthy4:59
12Intimacy3:57
13Queen Of Hollywood5:02
14No Good For Me4:00
15Little Wing5:07

THE SUM OF US: WHAT RACISM COSTS EVERYONE AND HOW WE CAN PROSPER TOGETHER By Heather McGhee

Heather McGhee claims racism costs us all. And then she presents the data that proves she’s right. Along with the detailed economic analysis McGhee provides, she drops nuggets like this: “A 1669 Virginia colony law deemed that killing one’s slave could not amount to murder because the law would assume no malice or intent to ‘destroy his own estate.’ ” (p. 11)

My favorite chapter in The Sum of Us is Chapter 7, “Living Apart.” McGhee steps away from her economics of racism and writes about growing up on the South Side of Chicago and learning that white neighborhoods and black neighborhoods were very different. School was very different, too. Because McGhee is highly intelligent, she was put in advanced classes where she was the only African American student. It was here where McGhee started to think about how segregation punished both races. She learned “When slavery was abolished, Confederate states found themselves far behind northern states in the creation of the public infrastructure that supports economic mobility, and they continue to lag behind today.” (p. 20)

If you’re interested in the economic consequences of racism (as well as the moral and psychological aspects), The Sum of Us lays it all out. This is not an angry book (although I got angry several times while reading about the meanness and cruelty in our history). Heather McGhee presents her case for change…and it is a powerful one. GRADE: A

Table of Contents

Introduction xi

Chapter 1 An Old Story: The Zero-Sum Hierarchy 3

Chapter 2 Racism Drained the Pool 17

Chapter 3 Going Without 41

Chapter 4 Ignoring the Canary 67

Chapter 5 No One Fights Alone 103

Chapter 6 Never a Real Democracy 139

Chapter 7 Living Apart 167

Chapter 8 The Same Sky 193

Chapter 9 The Hidden Wound 221

Chapter 10 The Solidarity Dividend 255

Acknowledgments 291

Notes 295

List of Interviews 399

Index 401

FRIDAY’S FORGOTTEN BOOKS #640: THE BEST FROM FANTASY AND SCIENCE FICTION, FIFTH SERIES Edited by Anthony Boucher

Anthony Boucher is the sole editor of The Best From Fantasy and Science Fiction, Fifth Series because J. Francis McComas stepped away after helping Boucher edit the first four volumes of this series. The most famous story in this volume is “A Canticle for Leibowitz” by Walter M. Miller, Jr. which would later be expanded into a classic SF novel.

I remember sitting in a Study Hall in the early 1960s reading the ACE edition of this book. When I read Zenna Henderson’s “Pottage”–one of her stories about The People who crash-landed on our planet and lived in fear of being discovered and killed–I remember my eyes getting misty. It’s a masterful story about a teacher and troubled children told with emotion.

I liked Anthony Boucher’s short short story “Nellthu” which is a variation on “The Three Wishes” motif. This series continues to present excellent stories with Boucher’s informative introductions. Recommended! GRADE: A-

Table of Contents: 

MILLENNIUM ’80s NEW WAVE PARTY and ROCK OF THE 80s, Volume 1

Here are two different music compilations featuring very different selections of songs from the 1980s. On Rock of the 80s, Volume 1 there’s the only song sung in German that became a hit in America: 99 Luftballons by Nena. On MILLENNIUM ’80s NEW WAVE PARTY there are groups like Bow Wow Wow and Haircut One Hundred. Which of these two CDs would you prefer? GRADE: B (for both)

Tracklist:

1The B-52’sRock Lobster Written-By – Fred SchneiderRicky Wilson (3)Written-By – Fred SchneiderRicky Wilson (3)4:54
2DevoWhip It Written-By – Gerald Casale*, Mark MothersbaughWritten-By – Gerald Casale*, Mark Mothersbaugh2:39
3a-haTake On Me Written-By – Mags Furuholem*, Morten HarketPål WaaktaarWritten-By – Mags Furuholem*, Morten HarketPål Waaktaar3:49
4Dexy’s Midnight Runners*–Come On Eileen Written-By – Billy AdamsJimmy Patterson*, Kevin RowlandWritten-By – Billy AdamsJimmy Patterson*, Kevin Rowland4:13
5EurythmicsSweet Dreams (Are Made Of This) Written-By – Annie LennoxDavid Stewart*Written-By – Annie LennoxDavid Stewart*3:37
6A Flock Of SeagullsI Ran (So Far Away) Written-By – Ali ScoreFrank MaudsleyMike ScorePaul ReynoldsWritten-By – Ali ScoreFrank MaudsleyMike ScorePaul Reynolds3:44
7Haircut One HundredLove Plus One Written-By – Nick HeywardWritten-By – Nick Heyward3:40
8MadnessOur House Written-By – Carl SmythChristopher Foreman*Written-By – Carl SmythChristopher Foreman*3:22
9Men Without HatsThe Safety DanceWritten-By – Ivan DoroschukWritten-By – Ivan Doroschuk2:45
10The CarsJust What I Needed Written-By – Ric OcasekWritten-By – Ric Ocasek3:45
11Thompson TwinsIn The Name Of Love Written-By – Tom BaileyWritten-By – Tom Bailey3:20
12Toni BasilMickey Written-By – Mike ChapmanNicky ChinnWritten-By – Mike ChapmanNicky Chinn3:27
13Thomas DolbyShe Blinded Me With Science Written-By – Joe Kerr*, Thomas DolbyWritten-By – Joe Kerr*, Thomas Dolby3:42
14Stray CatsRock This Town Written-By – Brian SetzerWritten-By – Brian Setzer2:40
15Soft CellTainted Love Written-By – Edward C. Cobb*Written-By – Edward C. Cobb*2:41
16Modern EnglishI Melt With You Written-By – Modern EnglishWritten-By – Modern English3:49
17Gary NumanCars Written-By – Gary NumanWritten-By – Gary Numan3:59
18Bow Wow WowI Want Candy Written-By – Bert BernsRobert Feldman*, Gerald Goldstein*, Richard GottehrerWritten-By – Bert BernsRobert Feldman*, Gerald Goldstein*, Richard Gottehrer2:46
19Frank Zappa & Moon ZappaValley GirlWritten-By – Frank ZappaMoon ZappaWritten-By – Frank ZappaMoon Zappa3:49
20Wang ChungEverybody Have Fun Tonight Written-By – Peter Wolf (3)Wang ChungWritten-By – Peter Wolf (3)Wang Chung4:47

Tracklist:

1The TubesShe’s A Beauty3:59
2Oingo BoingoWeird Science3:49
3The VaporsTurning Japanese3:45
4The Boomtown RatsI Don’t Like Mondays4:20
5Wall Of VoodooMexican Radio3:58
6Nena99 Luftballons3:53
7Duran DuranIs There Something I Should Know4:10
8The RomanticsTalking In Your Sleep3:57
9Cutting Crew(I Just) Died In Your Arms4:37

PHILIPS DREAMWEAR CPAP MASK (WITH NASAL PILLOWS)

I was diagnosed with Sleep Apea in 1995 although I suffered from loud snoring and fatigue for years before that. My health service provider delivered a CPAP (Continuous Positive Airway Pressure) machine and a CPAP mask. I tried the mask and the mask leaked air. I got another mask to try. It leaked. I got another mask, it was uncomfortable. Finally, I tried the Puritan-Bennett ADAM CIRCUIT CPAP mask with nasal pillows. It looks like this:

The nasal pillows didn’t leak and the design of the hose over my head was way more comfortable than having the hose resting on my chest so I could get tangled up with it. Fast-forward to 2015. Puritan Bennett doesn’t exist any more. I would search for parts for my CPAP mask online and after a couple of years, the parts started to disappear, too. Time to find a new CPAP mask.

It was the same story as 1995. My heath services provider gave me six different CPAP masks to try. They leaked or were uncomfortable. I was starting to despair until Ed, my long-time CPAP supplies guy, handed me the new Philips Dreamwear CPAP mask with nasal pillows. I tried it and loved it! I highly recommend the Philips Dreamwear CPAP mask with nasal pillows!

THE UNDERGROUND RAILROAD [AMAZON Prime Video]

Diane, Patrick, and I watched the first of 10 episodes of The Underground Railroad on AMAZON Prime video and plan to compete the series soon. The Underground Railroad is an Alternative Reality series where two slaves escape from their cruel Master and his cotton planation in Georgia. They ride the Underground Railroad (in this TV series the Underground Railroad is presented as a railroad that runs underground) while bounty hunters are in hot pursuit.

The Underground Railroad is directed by Barry Jenkins (best known for Moonlight). The series is based on the novel of the same name by Colson Whitehead (which won the 2017 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction). I liked Thuso Mbedu as Cora Randall and Aaron Pierre as Caesar. Be prepared for violence and cruelty if you watch The Underground Railroad. GRADE: Incomplete

TAKING A LONG LOOK: ESSAYS ON CULTURE, LITERATURE, AND FEMINISM IN OUR TIME By Vivian Gornick

Vivian Gornick writes insightful reviews and the ones in her new collection, Taking a Long Look, sparkle. In “Herman Melville” Gornick reviews Andrew Delbanco’s Melville: His World and Work by pointing out “…a book saturated in quotations from other readers. On every other page…Lewis Mumford notes, Elizabeth Hardwick observes, Harold Bloom remarks. A rudimentary list of those quoted includes Edward Said, Walker Percy, E. M. Forster, Newton Arvin, W. H. Auden, John Updike, along with the lesser known but influential academics Frank Lentriccia, Richard Slotkin, and Dominic La Capra.” (p. 31-32)

In “Diana Trilling” Gornick focuses on the tragedy of a husband’s betrayal of his wife. No, not a sexual betrayal, but a more insidious act. “She devoted herself to cleaning up her husband’s writing and, quite early, convinced herself that without her his world would never have been fully realized. She was certain that after Lionel died and his manuscripts went public, her contribution to the famous essays would be made known to the world. But then Lionel did die, and she discovered he had destroyed all those drafts with her editing notes on them. Distraught is not the word for what she felt.” (p. 50).

In “James Salter” Gornick focuses on Salter’s erotic novel, A Sport and a Pastime, where women play very narrow roles. “Certainly it is true that most writers have only one story in them–that is, as Flannery O’Connor puts it, only one they can make come alive. Then again, it is also true that it is the writer’s obligation to make the story tell more the third or fourth time around than it did the first. For this reviewer, Salter’s work fails on that score. In his eighties, he tells the story almost exactly as he told it in his forties.” (p. 76)

Vivian Gornick ranges far and wide in her book reviews and her articles on cultural figures. If you’re looking for an intelligent series of articles full of ideas and analysis, I recommend you take a long look at Gornick’s new book. GRADE: A

TABLE OF CONTENTS:

Introduction vii

Literature 1

1 Lore Segal 3

2 Alfred Kazin 14

3 Herman Melville 23

4 Kathleen Collins 35

5 Diana Trilling 46

6 Mary McCarthy 56

7 James Salter 70

8 Edna St. Vincent Millay 77

9 The Reading Group 84

Culture 91

10 Uncle Tom’s Cabin 93

11 Rachel Carson 100

12 Justice: What’s the Right Thing to Do? 110

13 Primo Levi 120

14 Hannah Arendt 131

15 Erich Fromm 140

16 The Americanization of Narcissism 151

17 The Second Sex at Fifty 160

Two New York Stories 169

18 On the Bus 171

19 Bobby’s Salon 178

Essays in Feminism 193

20 Consciousness 195

21 On Trial for Acting like a Man 225

22 The Women’s Movement in Crisis 234

23 Why Do these Men Hate Women? 245

24 Toward a Definition of the Female Sensibility 260

Acknowledgments 287

SFOGLINI PASTA CASCATELLI By Sporkful

I saw a CBS interview with the owner of Sfoglini Pasta, Dan Pashman, who designed this new form of pasta and claimed his pasta held the sauce better than conventional pasta. He designed this pasta form conforming to these criteria:

  • Sauceability: How readily sauce adheres to the shape
  • Forkability: How easy it is to get the shape on your fork and keep it there
  • Toothsinkability: How satisfying it is to sink your teeth into it

Katie ordered some Sfoglini Cascatelli and brought a box home for us to try.

My favorite pasta is DeCecco, but I gave the Sfoglini Cascatelli pasta a try. First of all, Cascatelli is squiggly. It reminded me of Cthulhu’s tentacles. The Cascatelli prep instructions call for boiling it for 17 minutes. The result is a pasta that is firm. Yes, it holds the sauce nicely and it’s easy to spear with your fork. I liked the texture. But, I still prefer the flavor of DeCecco pasta. Notice taste is not one of Pashman’s criteria. What’s your favorite pasta?

GRADE: SFOGLINI CASCATELLI – B

GRADE: DECECCO – A

eero 6 DUAL-BAND MESH WIFI SYSTEM

Patrick decided out WIFI was too slow so he ordered the Eero 6 Dual-Band Mesh WIFI System. Patrick installed it in minutes and we saw a big difference in speed right away. Our old router from Netgear was almost 10 years old.

The eero 6 can handle speeds up to 500 Mbps and covers up to 3000 square feet. Our house is 2400 square feet so this works out well. No more dead spots and buffering!

Do you need some new computer equipment?