
I live about 10 miles from where Joyce Carol Oates attended a one-room school house while she was growing up. There are other parallels. Joyce Carol Oates went to the University of Wisconsin-Madison and so did I. Joyce Carol Oates had a friend who committed suicide (she writes about it in “An Unsolved Mystery: The Lost Friend) and so did I. This memoir reveals plenty about a very private person. I appreciated the essays on the books that affected Oates: Alice in Wonderland and Moby Dick. Growing up with few books in the house, Joyce Carol Oates read a lot of Edgar Allen Poe since her father had some of his books. I related to Oates in the exam for a Ph.D. at UW-Madison. I went through similar exams. All in all, this book shows how a poor little girl from Western New York grew up to become one of the most prolific and successful American writers. GRADE: B+
TABLE OF CONTENTS:
Author’s Note
I
WE BEGIN
MOMMY & ME
HAPPY CHICKEN: 1942-1944
DISCOVERING ALICE
DISTRICT SCHOOL #7, NIAGARA COUNTY, NEW YORK
PIPER CUB
AFTER BLACK ROCK
SUNDAY DRIVE
FRED’S SIGNS
“THEY ALL JUST WENT AWAY”
“WHERE HAS GOD GONE”
HEADLIGHTS: THE FIRST DEATH
“THE BRUSH”
AN UNSOLVED MYSTERY: THE LOST FRIEND
“START YOUR OWN BUSINESS!”
THE LOST SISTER: AN ELEGY
NIGHTHAWK: RECOLLECTIONS OF A LOST TIME
II
DETROIT: 1962-1968
STORY INTO FILM
“WHERE ARE YOU GOING, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?” AND SMOOTH TALK
PHOTO SHOOT: WEST ELEVENTH STREET, NYC, MARCH 6, 1970
FOOD MYSTERIES
FACTS, VISIONS, MYSTERIES: MY FATHER FREDERIC OATES, NOVEMBER 1988
A LETTER TO MY MOTHER CAROLINA ON HER 78TH BIRTHDAY, NOVEMBER 8, 1994
“WHEN I WAS A LITTLE GIRL AND MY MOTHER DIDN’T WANT ME”
III
EXCERPT: TELEPHONE CONVERSATION WITH MY FATHER FREDERIC OATES, MAY 1999
THE LONG ROMANCE
MY MOTHER’S QUILTS
AFTERWORD









